Understanding Filipino Dating Customs: A Guide

Dear Abby, Lost in Love in the Philippines

Dear Abby,

I’m a foreigner working in the Philippines and I’m interested in dating a Filipino professional. I’ve heard that Filipino culture is quite unique, and I’m a bit nervous about navigating the dating scene. Can you give me some advice on Filipino dating customs?

Signed, Lost in Love

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Dear Lost in Love,

Navigating a new culture, especially when it comes to matters of the heart, can be both exciting and intimidating. Here are a few tips to help you on your Filipino dating adventure:

Respect and Politeness: Filipinos are known for their politeness and respect. Be a gentleman. Open doors, pull out chairs, and use polite language.

Family Matters: Family is incredibly important in Filipino culture. Don’t be surprised if your partner introduces you to their family early on. Be respectful and courteous to their family members.

The Art of Patience: Filipinos may be more reserved than what you’re used to. Be patient and understanding.

Directness with a Twist: While direct communication is valued, it’s often tempered with tact and politeness. Be honest, but choose your words carefully.

A Blend of Tradition and Modernity: Filipino dating is a mix of traditional values and modern influences. While some may prefer more traditional courtship rituals, others are more open to modern dating practices.

Remember, the best way to navigate Filipino dating is to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Be yourself, be respectful, and enjoy the journey.

Wishing you all the best, Abby

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