A Misunderstood Mandate: Forgiveness and Self-Preservation

Scripture Reading: Matthew 5:38-48

In our text today, Jesus challenges us with a radical teaching: “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also.” This passage, often taken out of context, has been used to justify passivity in the face of evil, even to the point of endangering oneself and one’s loved ones.

It’s important to understand that Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness is not a license for others to harm us. Rather, it’s a call to a higher standard of love and compassion. It’s a challenge to respond to evil with goodness, to break the cycle of violence and retaliation.

Forgiveness Does Not Equal Folly

Forgiveness does not mean we condone wrongdoing or become doormats. It doesn’t mean we should passively allow ourselves or our loved ones to be victimized. Self-preservation is a natural instinct, and it’s not sinful to protect oneself from harm.

Jesus himself, when faced with danger, took measures to protect himself and his disciples. He withdrew to quiet places, he warned his followers of impending persecution, and he even allowed his disciples to carry swords for self-defense.

The Balance of Love and Wisdom

The key to understanding Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness is to balance it with wisdom. We must love our enemies, but we must also be wise in how we love them. We can forgive without forgetting. We can extend grace without compromising our safety or the safety of others.

When faced with a threat, we can respond with love and forgiveness, but we can also take necessary precautions. We can pray for our enemies, but we can also seek justice through legal means. We can turn the other cheek, but we can also defend ourselves when necessary.

A Misguided Interpretation

The idea that we should allow ourselves to be victimized in the name of forgiveness is a dangerous misinterpretation of Scripture. It’s important to remember that Jesus’ teachings are meant to uplift and empower, not to victimize.

Let us strive to live out the teachings of Jesus in a way that is both loving and wise. Let us forgive our enemies, but let us also protect ourselves and our loved ones. May we be a people who embody the love of Christ, even in the face of adversity.